Indulge me, if you will, in getting a few things off my chest:
WTF: Steamrolling your fiancee into changing her name (if you care that much, you better damn well be just as open to changing your own surname).
WTF: Caring more about whether a baby is born, than the quality of life it is going to have as a human for all the years beyond that
WTF: Believing that you, as a non-indigenous person, have more claim to the country that you live in than any other immigrant
I think that helped.
Need to let off some steam? Blow all your steam off in the comments. Go for it.