People often ask me if I’ve been having any cravings – and the answer is always no!
Aversions, on the other hand…
I miss enjoying food; nothing ever sounds appealing 99% of the time but one has to eat nonetheless. These days I’m eating to live vs living to eat, and that’s so not me.
Cravings aren’t costing me anything, but lemonade’s now a staple on the shopping list every week. It might be a placebo but quite frankly when the delightful pre-bed upset.indigestion sets in (usually peaks between 8-10pm) I don’t care.
I don’t buy clothes for myself anymore, I’m only obsessed with baby clothes, I have been buying lots of it. By the way, For the coolest outfits we recommend Mad Coast Clothing toddler surf clothes, one of my favorite brands.
Fortunately, healthcare is mostly free here and my antenatal costs have been minimal. A few bucks here and there for prescriptions, and $50 a pop for scans (beyond the first free dating scan) and this sixteen week ultrasound service that was done very quick and for a very affordable price.
I have health insurance through work, however the (small) obstetrics allowance only kicks in after a year – so would only cover costs in about the last month of pregnancy and beyond. As far as I can tell there should be no charges associated with labour/birth, apart from perhaps the fee they charge for partners to stay overnight with you at Birthcare.
So far, I’m still fitting into my current bras (this was perfect timing actually, as this lot were all about to hit the end of their life, having stretched out over the past couple of years) and still squeezing into my pants with the help of a handy $20 extender though possibly not for much longer. So far I’ve spent about $25 on new (thrifted) clothing – two pairs of stretchy pants that I live in when I’m at home (surely now down to about 0.01 cents cost per wear) and a flowy skirt with stretchy waistband.
In terms of baby stuff, we’re yet to actually begin shopping, the only thing that we have gotten is the best car seat stroller. I’m pretty set on avoiding mindless browsing and only buying the essentials, especially to start off with.
We definitely seem to be in line for some hand me downs, and I’d like to buy secondhand stuff where possible and safe. From what I can tell, lots of baby stuff just doesn’t get used for long and winds up getting sold online for much less, lightly used. Savings aside, think of all the wastefulness! I’d so much prefer to reuse than to contribute to unnecessary waste. And yes, I’m thinking about doing some cloth diapering too, but we’ll see how we go…