About

Money matters. Let’s not pretend otherwise.

In my experience, the only people who say money doesn’t matter are either well and truly financially set – or have no money and never will. Their motivations are different but they’re both wrong.  Money matters … even if we don’t like to talk about it.

“You say money isn’t everything, but I’d like to see you live without it” – Silverchair

You could call this a personal finance blog, but it’s just as much about the emotional side of money as it is the practical. I’m fascinated by money and relationships. So many of us have unhealthy relationships with our finances, and with other people, at some point in our lives. Money can also seriously impact our personal relationships (saver married to a spender, holler). Like it or not, money underpins the capitalist society we live in.

I’ve experienced the heavy toll that money troubles can have on relationships. I’ve experienced the freedom and lightness that financial peace of mind brings. All things being equal, I’d take the money every time.

My money story

I left home young and struck out on my own financially, which shapes basically everything about my approach to money. I’m a saver who’s always had multiple streams of income to some degree, and have doubled my income since starting my career. (That said, I’m allergic to maths and terrified of Excel. But you don’t have to be good with numbers and spreadsheets to be good with money…)

In 2012 the travel bug hit hard, and I stumbled across the RTW travel blog community. After years of hustling, in 2013 I got hitched and took six months off to live my travel dream. Along with T (who merits the occasional mention around here as probably the only person in the world who can deal with my neuroses and frequent bouts of hangriness), we lived out of our backpacks and made our way around the world in – more or less – 180 days. Yeah, I still can’t quite believe that happened, either.

In November 2013, we touched down back home in Auckland, a city that’s great to live in most of the time. (For a totally accurate picture of what life in New Zealand is like, may I point you towards this Reddit thread and this Buzzfeed post?) I love travel but have no wish to travel full-time. Proof: I bought a house in 2016 and it’s the best thing ever.

Dreams are free. Making them happen? Not so much.

Real talk on money and life

Much as I love saving money (a dollar saved is a dollar earned and you won’t be taxed on it) I’ve also discovered the power of earning more along the way and it’s been a game changer. Money means options. And to a worrier like me, it means security and peace of mind.

So if you’re after real talk about the neverending quest for balance and the numbers involved in making dreams into reality – look no further. For starters:

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27 thoughts on “About

  • Reply youngandthrifty March 28, 2010 at 19:09

    Wow, we sound really similar!! =) I stalk people on facebook too =( except my spelling and grammar could use some polishing. =)

    We are both obsessed with personal finance and want houses of our own. Guess us Canadians and Kiwi’s have a lot in common?!

  • Reply eemusings March 28, 2010 at 19:21

    And we’re both often overshadowed by our neighbouring countries!

  • Reply miyuki June 15, 2010 at 18:46

    Hey there you commented on my blog, ecoamico and I just commented back. I’m a neurotic journalism graduate from NZ too! Small world 🙂

  • Reply Bankruptcy Ben June 25, 2010 at 18:18

    Hey us Aussies are pretty similar as well but we’re from convict stock so our grammar is terrible (or at least mine is).

  • Reply Natalie MacNeil October 22, 2010 at 07:11

    Just wanted to say thank you very much for adding She Takes on the World to your list of blogs. I love all the dreams you’re chasing after. Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything 🙂 All the best! ~Natalie

  • Reply thejoyofcaking December 5, 2010 at 04:25

    Just wanted to say hello! Glad to meet you in the internet kinda way… Sounds like you have some great goals (which I’m sure you will achieve). I get the feeling that you are a determined person – and that’s good! Thanks for adding my blog to your food blogroll – I am really glad it made your list! Stay in touch. Eileen

  • Reply Maggie December 20, 2010 at 14:43

    i’m a new follower (via google reader since i’m on blog spot [= ), found you on 20sb. love your blog! can’t wait to read more! Thanks for commenting on my discussion!

    http://t-h-i-n-g-s-i-l-o-v-e.blogspot.com/

  • Reply Brian Gerald January 8, 2011 at 19:24

    I share your love of semicolons!

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  • Reply Miss Miser January 27, 2011 at 15:38

    Facing j-school graduation in four months. I’ll be in your shoes shortly.
    Tell me, is it alright on the other side? 😉

    • Reply eemusings January 27, 2011 at 15:46

      It was surprisingly alright. Although…as you can probably see I’ve been thinking a lot about work and career paths, and what I want out of life. Email me if you want!

  • Reply bakebooks April 23, 2011 at 14:26

    Wow – love this.

    Especially the 2nd bullet-point…I’m working on that myself…

  • Reply allpowerfulwarriorgodess February 17, 2012 at 15:53

    I’m from auckland, new zealand too! It’s a small world 🙂

  • Reply Savvy Scot February 19, 2012 at 00:29

    Just found your blog and am really impressed – keep it up 🙂

  • Reply John | Married (with Debt) February 27, 2012 at 17:33

    Nice to meet you! Very fine looking site you’ve got here. Live for today – save for tomorrow – great wordplay!

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  • Reply Nurse Frugal September 6, 2012 at 16:15

    Nice to meet your blog!!! I’m with you on saving and being frugal!!!! I feel like a little sacrifice today will go a long way tomorrow 😉 How do you like Auckland?

    • Reply eemusings September 6, 2012 at 16:38

      Hmm, it’s basically the only place I’ve ever lived, so not sure how much weight my judgement would carry. The good: Close to pretty much all kinds of landscapes – beach, bush, mountains, whatever. Relatively safe. The bad: the cost of EVERYTHING. The weather. Bad drivers. Bad public transport. More thoughts here: https://eemusings.wordpress.com/2012/04/10/living-in-nz-the-ultimate-post/

  • Reply Just One Boomer (Suzanne) January 24, 2013 at 11:19

    Just found you via the travel blog carnival. Love your “about” page. You sound very wise for your young years. (I say this as a Baby Boomer, so you are young to me).

    Still not sure how I feel about semi-colons. After all these years on the planet, many of them spent writing, you would think I would have formed an opinion by now.

    As to your last belief, when I was your age, I concurred 100%. I was Ms. Responsible at all times, staying on the straight and narrow life trajectory: graduated from college (university); graduated from law school; got married (twice — the first one doesn’t count IMHO since I’ve been married to husband #2 for over 30 years now); and, gave birth to and raised two sons while working too many hours per week as a lawyer. Now, after several major health scares, watching contemporaries (friends and acquaintances) succumb to bad diseases and having presided over my father’s demise, I’m in a carpe diem phase. Our sons are through university, independent and self-supporting; I’m almost finished easing out of being a lawyer; I followed my #2 son into travel blogging; and now, I’m much more willing to say “f**k it” and choose to stoke my wanderlust whenever possible.

    Write on!
    PS: I see I have been using semi-colons; hopefully, appropriately 😉

  • Reply Sofie January 30, 2014 at 21:15

    You got me at “Every meal should be a pleasure.” 😀

  • Reply Emma December 12, 2014 at 05:26

    I fully agree with you about semi-colons, I love them 🙂

  • Reply Victoria@ The British Berliner December 17, 2014 at 18:32

    Thanks for coming to my blog. I think I’m going to like you LOL!

  • Reply Laia | colibrist May 16, 2015 at 09:32

    Wow, I can relate with you in most things! Dreamer and pessimist, loving travel but not sports… Took a year off for a RTW trip and been recently in NZ 🙂
    Happy travels!

  • Reply Sam @ Love & Wonderful August 11, 2015 at 08:03

    I do not talk sports too, period. I started blogging about personal finance, and yes, I stumbled upon your blog. I do like travel, but no plan for full time. And yes, may I say that I also marry to a spender.

  • Reply lynn ling March 14, 2016 at 14:47

    hi, a lovely space you have here 🙂

  • Reply Rich September 13, 2016 at 17:47

    Hi NZ Muse!

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    If you’re keen, jump on the site at https://www.upskillco.com/ and list your awesome skills, otherwise, shoot me any questions you have.

    Cheers

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