RTW and back: An interview with Arienne from See You Soon

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Teaching English overseas is a pretty common rite of passage for NZers, particularly as Asia develops further – but it’s a bit rarer among North Americans. Canadians Arienne Parzei and her partner are two who took this path … and the opportunity to tack on some extended travel at the end of it all. Good call!

You’ll find her blog over at seeyousoon.ca (with a niche in adventure activities, cultural experiences, and budget travel).  Arienne is a travel writer, videographer, and photographer from Toronto, whose insatiable curiosity for learning about different cultures first hand has led her to some amazing destinations and experiences, including living in South Korea for two years and backpacking for eight months through China, Southeast Asia, Australia, and New Zealand (huzzah! That’s her at Mt Cook above). We definitely share a predominantly go-with-the-flow travel philosophy, love for Malaysian food, and wonderment at the inherent goodness of human nature.

What made you decide to embark on your extended trip?

For a number of years I had thought about doing an extended trip, ideally backpacking for about six months. Up until this point I had only done two-week trips here and there and a one-month trip down to Peru. I wanted to do something longer where I could really sink my feet into a country and region. When we decided to move to South Korea, we knew it would be the perfect time to tack on a trip after our contracts finished and explore more of Asia and the surrounding areas.

Had you planned it all before South Korea or did you decide while you were over there?

The only thing we planned before South Korea was that we would be traveling for 6 months after our contracts finished. We ended up having a really great time in Korea, so we stayed a second year. While in Korea, we had the idea that we would be backpacking through Southeast Asia and hopefully would have enough money to make it down to Australia and New Zealand. We bought our one-way plane tickets from Seoul to Beijing about 5 months before our contracts finished in Korea and really only planned out our first months of travel through China.

How long did it take to plan/prepare?

It took us about 6 months to prepare for the trip, researching visas and destinations, ensuring we had all the gear we’d need for the trip, etc. But in terms of planning the actual trip, we took a 2-weeks-at-a-time approach in that we really only planned out the next two-weeks. We had a general idea of the route we wanted to take, but usually found accommodations on arrival and went with what we felt like doing at the time.

How did you fund the trip?

The trip was entirely funded from our savings while teaching in South Korea. Moving abroad gave us the opportunity to experience a new culture while being able to save for the ‘big trip’.

What do you wish you knew before leaving? Any advice for would-be RTW travellers?

Hmm, I really can’t think of anything I wish I had known before going. That’s all part of the travel experience. I will say though, that we didn’t expect to be in Southeast Asia for as long as we did. We thought we would be traveling for 6 months. But our budget was holding up and we ended up being on the road for 8 months (5 of which were in Southeast Asia). In terms of advice, I’d say don’t tie yourself down to any set plans. Go with the flow, follow your gut, and don’t race your way through destinations.

What is something surprising you learned on the road?

I learned that there are a lot of amazing people in this world. Kind-hearted people who are willing to open their doors to you, invite you to join in a meal, even when you’re complete strangers. I think many of us approach situations from a skeptical eye, thinking “what does this person really want from me?” And while there are some of those people, more often than not, the people you’ll meet mean the best. I learned to be open to allow those situations to happen.

What was your favourite place (or since I know this is impossible to choose, what’s one place you would return to in a heartbeat?)

Yes it’s hard to choose! We visited 10 countries on our trip and there are 3 that I would return to in a heartbeat; Laos, Malaysia, and New Zealand. Laos for the laid-backness, Malaysia for the food, and New Zealand for the scenery.

What’s still on your travel wish list? Any confirmed trips coming up?

There’s still a lot on the wish list! We’d both like to explore more of our own country, Canada, and we’re talking about a big road trip through the United States. I’d also really like to start exploring more of Eastern Europe.

What’s it been like settling back in Canada so far?

It took some time to readjust to living in Canada again. We were gone for almost 3 years, so we did experience some reverse culture shock. Tristan went back to school and got his teaching degree and he’s now teaching in the public schools in Toronto and I ended up getting a job working at Ryerson University teaching video and radio production. It seems our time in Korean classrooms made an impression on us!

Do you plan to stay put – is this your ‘forever’ city?

That’s a hard question. For most people, deciding to move abroad can be one of the hardest things to do. But once you’ve done it you realize how capable and straightforward it can be. You also learn that you don’t really need too much stuff. Toronto is where our families and friends are but we’re not going to rule out the possibility of moving abroad again one day.

Also see: RTW and back: An interview with Maddie and Paul of Two for the Road)

7 thoughts on “RTW and back: An interview with Arienne from See You Soon

  • Reply Clarisse @ Make Money Your Way June 10, 2014 at 09:25

    I remember,my father told me before that South Korea is a very clean country. You can’t even spit on the street or else you will get a penalty, but I don’t know if it still exists.

  • Reply Cat@BudgetBlonde June 10, 2014 at 14:18

    I love reading about other peoples experiences living overseas and teaching! I enjoyed it myself so much!

  • Reply Shaun June 11, 2014 at 04:52

    Great interview. I met Arienne at TBEX in Toronto and started reading her blog shortly after. A very inspirational little person! 🙂

  • Reply KK @ Student Debt Survivor June 11, 2014 at 13:12

    I’ve always thought that teaching overseas would be a really great way to try living abroad. I have a co-worker who recently did so (he and his wife are both retirement age and decided to pack up and leave for a while-which I think is super cool).

  • Reply Maurice Dobb June 13, 2014 at 15:55

    Loved going through the interview. The questions are apt and the answers almost gave me the answers that I was looking for traveling abroad. However, I have two more queries: What would be the probable sum of money that I should consider for traveling the Asian countries she covered for two persons?; What are the different things that I should keep in mind while traveling abroad especially in Asia?; and What are the different cultural or other place related Dos and Donts that we need to follow so that we don’t bump into any problem?
    P.S. As I haven’t been to any foreign country before, I’m asking these questions. If these queries seem immature, please help me out considering me an immature one. 🙂

    • Reply eemusings June 13, 2014 at 16:00

      Travel budgets, totally impossible to say. Depends on your travel style. I always suggest people check out BudgetYourTrip.com to get an idea of travel costs in various countries (you can choose budget, normal or luxury travel style). I’ve recapped all our travel budgets here (with internal links to breakdowns for diff regions: https://nzmuse.com/2014/01/rtw-trip-costs-total/ These are all NZ dollars for two people) You may also find this post helpful. https://nzmuse.com/2013/04/funding-our-rtw-trip/

      Dos and don’ts also vary so much by country. I would suggest researching individually. I found the Triposo app invaluable for many reasons, including the dictionary/common phrase list and cultural tips. https://nzmuse.com/2014/04/best-rtw-travel-apps/

  • Reply Daisy @ Prairie Eco Thrifter June 19, 2014 at 14:54

    The more I read about RTW trips, the more I crave going on one. Especially one that involves making money while travelling, to offset the costs. I’d love to teach English in Asia for a little while. I have been looking into volunteering with animals which I’d also love to do, but making some money to pay for the rest of the trip would also be great.

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