No joke….this is my life

And then came more.

Last night I heard something breaking, like glass smashing outside. And a shout. I rushed outside, with BF and some of our friends who were over.

Three little gangster lowlifes had just put a brick through our flatmate’s back windscreen. They took off down the street. BF yelled at them/after them. They came back. Started fronting up and acting all hard and tough and trying to pick a fight. They threw our rubbish bin at our cars. They threw probably five or six bottles at the house and cars. Talking absolute shit and saying “we know where you live” and they knew BF’s name (apparently they went to our school). All kinds of crap and trying to stir up trouble. As if the yelling and bottling wasn’t enough, they started shaking and kicking the neighbour’s fence (they luckily have abig wooden gate and nobody can get in at all).

Throwing bottles is CHEAP. I do not believe in fighting. But if you’re going to fight, fight fair.

Anyway, we stayed fairly calm and even though one of them hit one of my mates in the chin, nothing happened. We stayed on our property, called the cops, stayed put. They eventually retreated. The cops never came.

Same thing happened maybe an hour later; they came back, started shouting and swearing etc again. They took off after the LL and his mates pulled into the driveway – apparently they started hassling them too and stepping to them. Called the cops. The cop car came forever later, simply drove down the street, then zoomed off like a shot when they saw nobody on the roads. It was pissing down, it was FREEZING, and we had given up on standing, waiting outside. BF tried to sprint out and flag the car down, to no avail.

How is it that the police don’t give a shit about these things? And how is it that we have no means of recourse and no way of protecting ourselves? I am not going to face down people trying to throw bottles at me. There is no reason or rhyme with people like that. I asked, SEVERAL times, “WHAT IS THE PROBLEM?” You know, like, why are you doing this and what is your beef?

I felt so utterly helpless then, I cannot describe how frustrating that was.

And again maybe half an hour later. Called the cops. We just stayed inside, and I swear this time those hoodrats started actually coming on to our property. I was so worried they were going to do damage to the house, and put me out of pocket. The cops came an age later and actually came to the door. I jumped out of my skin thinking it was those boneheads actually knocking on our front door.

And then I realised how badly I handled the whole situation. I should have been scrutinising their faces and noting down their attire. The cops wanted to know if we could identify them. I couldn’t have told you one single thing about them, let alone the colour of their hoodie! I was just so freaked out by the entire situation. BF is hyper observant thank God, because I am not, and I didn’t even THINK to try and observe.

BTW, at least one of them was the same one involved with the burglary of our house back  in the summer. And probably all of them were to some extent, because that’s how these groups roll.

And it’s not fucking good enough.

Seriously, I don’t care HOW bad your life is or what a crap upbringing you had or how bored you are or how drunk you are.


This morning I went and swept up all the glass that I could. There are so many minuscule little shards that I doubt I’ll ever be able to get them all. But they are probably enough to cause some serious pain – so no more barefooting it around outside. There’s also tons of little broken bits sort of below our immobile car, and in the hollow of the tyres and the spokes of the mags that I couldn’t get to. That’s gonna be a bitch to clean up.

Oh yeah, and BF ended up in the emergency department till 4am. But that’s a post for tomorrow.

It’s easy to be a bleeding heart liberal and go on about rehabilitation when you’re comfortably ensconced in your middle class existence in Mt Eden.

Not so much when you’re holed up in your house afraid to go outside, expecting a rock through your window at any moment.

I would have loved to have pulled a Denny Crane right then and pulled off a round of shots at those little shits.

What are you supposed to do in that situation? What CAN you do? How is it that we can’t protect ourselves from (insert choice word here) like that? BF called our cop friend, who merely confirmed how powerless and uncaring police are in such matters.

I kind of wish I’d just booted those f***wits in the nuts, although that would’ve just enraged them and set them off at our guys. Or possibly even retaliate on me, in which case GOOD because that might have got the cops out here, but then set our guys on them to protect my dignity etcetc. URGH.

And no, I do not believe the right to bear arms would have solved this. Guns are too easily turned back on you. And if it’s easy for people like myself to get a gun, imagine how much easier it will be for guys like those.

Four months left on this lease.

That’s a long time.

3 thoughts on “No joke….this is my life

  • Reply Sense May 10, 2009 at 17:24

    WOW!! that is CRAZY!! is this what gangs do in NZ? coming from the US, it always amused me that gangs here use tomahawks and other such objects to act tough, instead of guns…but of course it’s still a serious situation whenever there’s a mob mentality at work.

    I’m so sorry you’re going through all that, that is really a awful situation. and now you can’t really even feel safe in your own house, yeah?
    is it completely out of the question to break the lease and move? i know things are tough financially, but it may be worth the cost for your safety.

    when it rains it pours…now karma OWES you, things have to get better!

    hope BF is feeling better!

  • Reply Sense May 10, 2009 at 17:25

    *an* awful situation. calling the grammar nazis on myself…

  • Reply eemusings May 10, 2009 at 20:14

    Well, it’s not like they’re even a real gang or anything, just trying to act like it. Imagine if they had guns though…

    Seriously, banish them to their own island or something and let them all kill each other off. Just not in my backyard!

    I don’t know. I doubt they’ll try anything again, but if they do I will seriously have to try and see what we can do to leave.

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