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  • Link love (Powered by plane food and house hunting)

    The thing that stands out to me most about being back home is not the rain, the familiar accents, or the cars.

    It’s the air.

    About an hour before we landed, I started sneezing like mad, and have barely stopped since. A day later, it’s pretty obvious that it’s a lot more effort for me simply to breathe here than anywhere else we’ve been in the past six months. (It’s almost summer here, and while our summers are very mild by global standards, it’s definitely not super cold.) My chest feels constricted and in a quiet room, I’m THAT person huffing and sniffling nonstop. Might be time to seek out a doctor.

    Continuing on in a slightly depressing vein, we’ve also come home to the news of the death of a guy I went to school with, and this Roastbusters stuff, which is already making headlines round the world.

    But happily, there are lots of good things I’ve read recently too! Here’s my picks for this week.

    Here’s Cordelia on 15 surefire ways to guarantee a dead end life

    Jen Dziura on whether you should lean in to what you love, and Funny About Money on the perils of following your bliss

    Figuring Money Out on 20 daily habits of the wealthy

    An intriguing discussion on career sponsorship vs mentorship at Publishing Trendsetter

    Ashley on reconciling our present selves with our former selves

    Afford Anything on how to escape the ordinary, step by step

    Get Rich Slowly on learning to bargain

    Save Spend Splurge has put together a nice list of wardrobe essentials (male AND female)

    Donna reminds us that time is something we can’t do over

    Caroline joins me in hating the traveller vs tourist argument

    Sydney shares five of her favourite inspirational travel destinations

    Michelle ponders the American dream

    Finally, APW on what feminism means and why feminism matters. For me, this used to mean shunning pink, and dresses, and pop music, and cooking. Now I’ve come to realise it’s really about doing whatever the hell I want; I can wear lipstick but shun heels, like Mariah Carey AND Metallica, and realise that sucking in the kitchen isn’t actually cute or something to be proud of.

    Happy weekends!

  • Monday motivation: Sarah @ Greesonbach Creative

    Sadly, I didn’t get to meet my ballin’ blog buddy Sarah on the east coast last month. That said, she probably wouldn’t have the time anyway – she’s on fire with her new biz, an awesome company called Greesonbach Creative! I wanted to know all about it, and she was kind enough to indulge my curiosity.

    Who are you and what makes you awesome? 

    I’m Sarah Greesonbach, CEO of Greesonbach Creative. What makes me awesome is my energy and enthusiasm for all things online writing and marketing. My slogan is that I help companies let their hard work shine online — because so often hard-working businesses don’t know how to translate that into a successful web presence.

    Describe your work in three words?

    Awesome internet words!

    Who are your dream clients?

    I love people who love to wake up in the morning. I’ve been very fortunate to work mostly with small businesses and startups, the people who are living their dream and looking for ways to accurately express themselves online.

    How long have you been doing this? 

    My tango with words began as a nerdy ten year old, but I’ve been writing professionally for almost three years now. Two as an informal blogger, one as a marketing specialist, and a month and a half as a full-time writer.

    How did you get into it?

    I got into it by being laid off! I had been building my online “nest” so to speak for almost two years, and I had the itch to get out of the traditional 9-5 but not the legitimate need. Because who turns down a real job with a steady paycheck without a huge savings buffer and a fully-funded business plan?

    What I’ve come to realize is that we’re all self-employed freelancers, it’s just that the majority of us only have one large, mean client (AKA the corporate job!). So now that I have several, small clients, I feel like a more flexible, more vested employee.

    What have you learned along the way? Any surprises/learning curves/hurdles?

    I’m not sure I can do it all justice… It’s been a self-respect learning curve, for sure, because once you realize you need to charge someone for talking to you on the phone, you sort of re-evaluate your life.

    It’s a pleasant balance of being “in the zone” and helping companies do things that come naturally to me, while also finally being able to run my home and cook the food I need to stay healthy. We’ve rebuilt our budget based on what we have to pay for, what we need to pay for, and what we want to pay for, and I look forward to reaching a point where I can just stop working when I hit the right numbers. That has been a whole new kind of living, for my typically American workaholic self! I’ve never had the luxury, before, of thinking about what would be “enough.”

     What are you proudest of accomplishing so far?

    My proudest accomplishment was hitting my invoicing goal for October 31st. Not because it means I can pay my rent, necessarily, though that’s nice, too, it’s more about unleashing my desire for self-determination. When put in a potentially bad position, I rallied everything I had and I’m making it work. Tons of others are doing so, and tons more do so in traditional jobs, but for me this has been an excellent fit and a huge accomplishment. And oh, yeah: terrifying.

     

    What’s one common thing you see people doing online that just makes you facepalm?

    Not having one, or having one with all standard backgrounds and images. Having the blank egg and sky clouds background on Twitter is insane to me!

    To everyone wondering how to fix it, just stick your company logo and call it a day. Head to your website, right click on your website’s logo, click “Copy image URL,” open that in a new page, save it to your computer, and load it as your Twitter and Facebook image. Please!

    Overall, I have loved hearing the sighs of relief from prospective clients when they receive my email response explaining exactly what they need, how I can do it, and how little it will cost. Social media and strategic content are really important for technical things like SEO and developing leads, but also for the morale and branding of the company itself. My favorite part is that everything I do and everything I’m paid is really an investment in someone else’s dream — their business! So it’s a lot of good karma all around.

    What is the first thing you do in the morning? And last thing at night?

    First: Thank God for this opportunity. Last: Actually get excited about the next day’s work (like… seriously. Can’t sleep excited about everything in the works and all the potential in the world).

    What’s your drug of choice (aka what fuels you? Coffee? Doughnuts? Midday margaritas?)

    Being Paleo AIP, most food “drugs” really are drugs to me, though I’ve been a sucker for decaf coffee lately. My go-to treat is really good dark chocolate and a banana, or decaf black tea with coconut milk.

    Wanna see more interviews like this? Or be interviewed yourself? Let me know!

  • Link love (Powered by tacos and red rocks)

    Holla! In less than two weeks I’ll be home, a fact I can’t quite get my head around. I haven’t even begun to recap any of our American adventures!

    In lieu, I offer you some choice reading material. You’re welcome.

    Here is what it takes to live a truly offline life today (slightly off topic: I’ve been watching The Newsroom and Scandal on delay over this trip, and eerily, saw the government spying episode just as all the NSA stuff was happening, and Genova just as the Syria chemical weapon stuff was happening)

    Geek in Heels ponders the concept that all parents screw up their kids in one way or another

    I think most women would be lying if they didn’t wish they were a little more ‘beautiful’, so I adored this post on the conflict that comes with being a smart girl rather than a great beauty

    Another post that really resonated with me is about outgrowing a passion. Like Rachel, when I was a teen music was such an integral part of my life, and I used to want to be a music writer myself

    Penelope Trunk makes a few assertions about Asperger’s in this piece, but I can’t help but think her conclusion applies to most of us: find a life partner, and find a job

    The best thing about getting older: curating your life, according to Live It Love It

    Date a man who asks your opinion, says NYC Love Addict

    In the same vein: date a female personal finance blogger, writes Cait

    Nicole and Maggie want to know: do you miss anything from high school?

    Landing Standing has a few top tips for booking short stay apartments when travelling

    I nearly died laughing reading Asian Pear’s recounting of a few choice conversations with her parents

    Ashley talks us through how to do stuff alone

    Not everything you do for fun has to be turned into a business, as Leslie points out

    What would you think if you met me for the first time? Berrak says odds are you might not like her all that much

    As Her Every Cent Counts points out, it’s tricky to navigate the career waters when you don’t know who to turn to for personalised advice

    Finally, you need to read this letter – it’s beautiful, and full of hope for the future, and oh so wise

    Happy weekends!

  • Link love (Powered by poutine and pancakes)

    I have spent an inordinate amount of time over the past couple of weeks mulling over what feminism means to me – and it’s all because of this post on A Practical Wedding. If you follow one link from this post, please make this the one. Maybe you’re not into the academic side of feminism (neither am I). Maybe you don’t think we even need feminsm anymore. Either way, this post – and especially the comments – are thought-provoking. Here are two of my favourite excerpts:

    [From the post]
    “I want all women to keep their last names. I don’t want women to use the language, “I kept my name,” but instead to use the language, “Neither of us changed our names.” I want women to pass on their last names to their children. I don’t want women who hyphenate to always allow their male partners to have their name go last. I’ve made those choices personally, I’ll defend them till I die. Beyond that, I’ll do everything I can to make those choices easier for others, and to help women see why this issue is so important.”
    [Reader comment]

    “I shave my legs and armpits, and by doing so I’m reinforcing the idea that women’s bodies are disgusting in their natural state and need to be modified in all sorts of ways to be appealing to men, whereas men’s bodies are generally ok as-is. I can’t say “I’m not doing it for men, I’m doing it for me because I like my legs smooth” because I’m aware that my own preference for smooth legs is simply an internalization of society’s demeaning norms about women’s bodies. And I won’t hide behind “choice” rhetoric because the women’s movement is not about freeing some women to make the choice to shave their legs (or change their names when they get married) and freeing other women to make other choices. It’s about eradicating the underlying objectification of women that supports the leg-shaving norm, which I’m implicitly supporting by shaving my legs.

    I have to own that shaving my legs is not a feminist choice. But I don’t have to feel bad about it every day. And when I have kids and I can’t bear to explain to them why mommy has to take the hair off her legs and daddy doesn’t, maybe I’ll decide this is a fight I’m ready to take on.”
    Elsewhere…

    Here are the various levels of family dinner, according to Dinner: A Love Story

    One of the first things I want to make when I get back to NZ: fried haloumi, a’la Hungry and Frozen

    Chelsea Talks Smack on the anatomy of fucking up

    Donna reminds us writers to stop undervaluing our work

    Save Spend Splurge breaks down why she no longer wants to move to Portugal

    Budget and the Beach lists some financial decisions she’s never regretted

    I’m a bit backlogged on the blogging front, but rest assured that we’re chugging along on the road and loving it. I’ve been so privileged to meet some of my favourite bloggers and all going to plan will meet a few more on the West Coast. Happy weekends!

  • Link love (Powered by Chipotle and Popeye’s)

    That’s right: You guys know how to do fast food. I’m going to need to detox again post-America, but in the meantime, we ain’t holding back…

    Nor am I holding back on the links. Here’s a handful that caught my eye this week. Sharing is caring, yo.

    Ashley Riordan has 50 quotes on creativity you might enjoy

    And here’s some self improvement quotes to get you up and going, over at Untemplater

    I could never do this, but was intrigued by Mutant Supermodel’s thoughts on fasting

    TeacHer Finance lists five things she can’t believe about her financial life – entertaining!

    At Get Rich Slowly: The grass isn’t always greener when you’re changing careers

    L Bee and the Money Tree is all about handling the crazy this month

    Partner is a weird word. Heck, labels are just tough, as A Practical Wedding ponders

    Our Freaking Budget has some tips for fixing your bad budget

    Networking advice that doesn’t suck, via Gen Y Girl

    Manda’s learned a few things in her first year on the job

    From Newlyweds on a Budget: what’s the secret to a great marriage?

    Finally, you must read Frugal Portland’s tribute to her late mother. Beautiful.

    Monday marks the start of our road trip. Here’s hoping for a non-shitty car, and as few wrong turns as possible. Looking forward to meeting some of you next month, and thanks everyone for all your advice thus far 🙂

  • Link love (Powered by baguettes and brie)

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    Hello there! We’ve finally escaped the Mediterranean heat and are cooling off in Paris. A little too much, perhaps; yesterday brought the first rain we’ve been exposed to in a couple of months, putting a damper on the day. Ah well, we had three decent days before that, and a couple more ahead of us. Can I just say: WE LOVE PARIS. Weather and language barrier aside (and maybe the prices), I could definitely live here. It reminds us of London, but with better food, and just generally all-around more awesome.

    I haven’t been doing as much reading as I’d like to, but here’s what’s caught my eye so far this month:

    The seven deadly sins of freelancing, via Susannah Breslin

    Financial Samurai pens an ode to endless summers

    Afford Anything explains the four types of retirement

    Over at Zen Habits, Jodi Ettenberg on finding mindfulness through food

    Should we all just live like we’re poor? Via Mochi and Macarons

    Nicole at A Life Less Bullshit reveals the one word you need to embrace

    Over at Grow, five ways to avoid the online personal ghetto

    Krystal wants to know: how much does your car really cost you?

    The Everyday Minimalist outlines three ways to feel happier about your spending

    At Yes and Yes, an insight into the life of a Grand Canyon worker

    When should you quit a side hustle? Via Budgets Are Sexy

    Finally, here’s what Kim of So Many Places knows about happiness

  • Link love (Powered by olive oil and gelato)

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    As I alluded to earlier this week, I used to adore travel planning.

    NOT ANYMORE. Especially after the last couple of weeks!

    First, the couple (Couchsurfing buds) whom we planned to visit in Grenoble stopped responding to my messages. Without a reason to stop in southern France, and the desire to avoid long train rides for T’s sake, I decided we should take those few days and fly straight to Paris. Cue a lot of searching trying to figure out what Italian city was cheapest to fly from, whether Ryanair was worth the savings (considering they fly to a really far away airport) and whether a slightly cheaper late night flight would be worth the savings over a daytime flight (considering we might miss the last subway of the night and be forced to catch a taxi).

    Just a few days after booking our (nonrefundable) flights, one of the women we met at Englischhausen in Germany emailed suggesting we visit her in September as she had some free time. Those dates would have been absolutely PERFECT, slotting in to fill the Grenoble gap. Alas, the fees to change our flight and factor in another extra journey meant it just wasn’t meant to be after all.

    With a week lined up in Paris, I wanted to rent an apartment and immerse ourselves in the city. But after identifying several promising possibilities, none have panned out yet. TIME IS RUNNING OUT. (Poor show, Paris Attitude. You’d think a professional agency would see a request through, rather than abruptly stop responding to emails.  Have now moved on to Airbnb, where I can at least understand why hosts might ignore enquiries.)

    A lovely guy in Iceland accepted our Couchsurfing hosting request, but has yet to reply to my subsequent messages about coordinating our arrival.

    And of course, our American road trip is fast approaching, which is shaping up to be the biggest logistical challenge yet.

     /deep breath

    Here, have some lovely links. Because reading makes you smarter.

    MONEY

    Little Miss Moneybags ponders the economic system that gives us enslavement by debt, and by extension, capitalism

    Over at L Bee and the Money Tree, how to move to New York with $300 in your pocket

    I love a good airing of personal finance confessions, like this one at Get Rich Slowly

    CAREER

    At Get Rich Slowly, a few signs that you’re over your job – and what to do about it

    And at Ask a Manager, some insightful advice on how to evaluate how well you’re doing at your job

    TRAVEL

    Need a countryside holiday? Of course you do, as Yes and Yes explains

    Some poignant reflections on travel, courtesy of Zen Habits

    What’s it like to be a food-obsessed traveller? LandingStanding elaborates in GIFs (Heck to the YES!)

    Kim of So Many Places on funding a RTW trip

    Is Portland really like Portlandia? Kathleen at Frugal Portland lays it all out

    LIFE

    Stacking Pennies unpacks the meaning of identity and tries to define herself by certain criteria

    Manda of Break the Sky shares some life lessons and some fictional boyfriends

    I was riveted by Ganda’s recent parking drama, as I’ve been there, done that before

    Funny About Money rounds up some sites to check out for good longform reads

    Finally, Cordelia Calls it Quits is thankful for life’s hurdles (the shit times) and confesses to letting dumb things affect her happiness sometimes (amen!)

  • Link love (Powered by introspection and long train rides)

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    Unsurprisingly, I’ve had a lot of time to think about what I want my life to look like when we return home. I’m not sure I have any definite answers. But one thing that’s up in the air is this blog. Do I want to keep writing? In what form? And what about? I just don’t know. I’ve come across a smattering of blog posts in the last month about the waning allure of blogging, and I have to admit they’ve resonated with me. Here are two:

    Deb Kommein is over blogging for these 10 reasons

    The ‘what’s next’ crisis of blogging

    Maybe it’s something in the air. Maybe it’ll pass.

    But moving on! Here are a few other posts I recently enjoyed.

    L Bee’s post on financial competence is both humorous and honest

    Cassie’s honest post on diving into investing

    Poor Girl Eats Well on small pick-me-ups and dealing with a chronic illness

    My Alternate Life on wanting – and not wanting – stuff

    A real post about relationships at APW

    JD is back writing at Get Rich Slowly! And Sarah Gilbert is asking whether us plebs can have rich friends

    Rachel Hills has some words of advice for a younger her

    Nicole Antoinette reminds us that clarity often comes from doing, not thinking

    Happy weekends!

  • Link love (Powered by bikes and BMWs)

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    It’s been a whirlwind few weeks since we touched down at Heathrow. And the thing is, not every single one of the places we’ve visited warrants a post of its own. Between London and Germany, I haven’t really felt inspired to put pen to paper at length about any of the towns or cities we’ve passed through. So instead, you get a brief summary:

    Edinburgh – as one commenter on my London post put it, London failed to truly capture her heart, and I have to agree. Edinburgh, on the other hand? Absolutely brimming with charm – and yes, the accents. Plus, can you imagine walking past a ginormous castle every single day?

    Brussels – epic street murals. Oh, and waffles. Otherwise, it was a tad dull, to be honest. I wanted to stop in at Bruges as well, but instead we next visited…

    Maastricht – thanks to the Yes and Yes Amsterdam mini travel guide, I was alerted to this quaint little southern Dutch town. Bring a full wallet and empty stomach; unfortunately I did this the wrong way around.

    Amsterdam – all we expected, really, from canals to bikes to coffee shops and parks, trams and the red light district.

    Until I get around to fleshing out my thoughts on Germany, here’s some more good reading to whet your appetite.

    Quit your job while you’re young in order to travel, says Jess Yurasek on Medium.

    And on that note, here’s Financial Samurai on some other common reasons why people quit their jobs.

    Here is a beautiful guest post on Stephany Writes – a letter by Akirah Robinson to her younger self.

    I’m sure you’ll find something new and great on this Yes and Yes list of amazing magazines you should be reading.

    A reminder of why having money is a wonderful thing (as if you could forget!) over at Grumpy Rumblings

    A step by step guide to combining finances, over at L Bee and the Money Tree

    Via A Practical Wedding: what if your friends don’t like your partner?

    Ashley has a killer post on the liquid nature of truth.

    Perfectly Cursed Life lists the new milestones in life.

    And Chelsea Talks Smack is back with 13 things she wished she’d believed her mother told her.

    I’m not sure if I’ll be online over the next week; if not, I’ll catch you on the flipside. Don’t do anything I wouldn’t.

  • Link love (powered by haggis and waffles)

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    As a few of you guys mentioned on Twitter this week, backpacking in the heat can be a real drain. But it beats backpacking in the cold and rain. London, Edinburgh, and now Brussels have been pretty darn grey and chilly – bring on summer proper Europe!

    To commemorate the death of Google Reader, I thought it was time for a long overdue link roundup. Here’s a few of the posts I enjoyed recently:

    As Tony at Landing Standing points out, you don’t have to travel to find yourself. Here’s 16 pointers to spice up your life if it’s just not feeling all that interesting right now.

    Here’s Mutant Supermodel breaking down sexism in video games.

    Cassie shares some thoughts on home ownership, tangible and intangibles alike.

    The always outstanding Sarah of Yes and Yes on how to deal when people disappoint you.

    Entertaining yet honest, Michelle Woo lists the things she wishes she’d known before having a baby.

    Budget and the Beach recalls the simplicity of childhood summers.

    And finally, Kelly of Cordelia Calls It Quits on why there will always be a reason NOT to.

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