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  • Link love (Powered by tartiflette and baklava)

    Sooo, I finally updated my blogroll (click through to see it in the sidebar, RSS-ers) with some great career resources. I work in the creative industries, and you’ve probably noticed that many of my work-related links here relate to writing or social media. So if that’s you, have a squiz at some of those blogs – value guaranteed.

    Really, the only thing missing from there now is book blogs – but as much as I love reading, I don’t read blogs about books. Ah, well.

    WORK

    Ten ways to tell freelancing isn’t for you, at Freelance Folder.

    To make a living writing, be more than a writer, says Alexis Grant.

    Better writers don’t always earn more, writes Carol Tice.

    Oh yes. The pros and cons of being a web worker, by Deb at Kommein.

    LIFE

    Shit first time homeowners say, by Little Miss Moneybags and Blonde and Balanced.

    This is rad. At APW, Maddie’s guide to getting married young. (Love the line about staying out with the boys all night playing Rock Band. Can I get a hell yeah?)

    Things that are hugely overrated in life, according to Marian.

    The literary alter ego of Obsessions of a Workaholic is, apparently, a grad student.

    FOOD

    Ginger kisses! Courtesy of a wandering food lover.

    Via the $120 Food Challenge, Thai garlic chicken on rice noodles. Plus lime and garlic mayo.

    Cate shares her recipe for squash and red lentil soup.

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    This week, for the first time, I used iMapMyRun to track a run.

    The pause function didn’t work, which was annoying. I recoded two separate workouts, one pre-traffic light and one post.

    What felt like a decent 30-35 minute run? Was 3km in 19 minutes. Sigh. (I kinda made up for it on my next one – 15km in two-ish hours.)

    Knowing that I was measuring my progress definitely spurred me on. But my low data cap and my approach to exercise (keep running fun, basically) means I probably won’t be busting out this app all that often.

    Linky time!

    Freedom 35 explains the secret power of multiple incomes.

    You Have More Than You Think lists 10 things we love to buy but hate to use.

    Can I pick your brain? Here’s Urban Muse Writer on paying it forward vs being a sucker.

    Decluttering tips from Leo himself at Zen Habits.

    Here’s some seriously good advice on rocking the first day at a new job at Bullish.

    Dollars and Deadlines breaks down her 2011 freelance income.

    Stuff new homeowners never think about. Via Budgets Are Sexy.

    Awesome advice from an MIT alum to a struggling student, at Study Hacks.

    Geek in Heels on social capital and tapping into the expertise of friends.

    Kyla Roma blogs about eating well as a lifestyle.

    Cate shares a recipe for creamy stovetop mac and cheese.

    Dinner: A Love Story offers four culinary strategies for nervous newbies.

    Neurotic Workholic explains who and what she doesn’t want to be in five years.

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    Time for the first link love of the year, after a seasonal hiatus!

    FOOD

    Closet Cooking has some sumptuous looking chocolate shortbread.

    Asian-inspired redemption salad via Dinner: A Love Story.

    Not Eating Out In New York’s veggie dumplings.

    WORK

    How to become a permanent slasher – an entrepreneur of many talents. Via Sean Ogle.

    Things Tenured Radical learned from the very first job.

    Urban Muse lists five online communities for writers.

    A couple of cool career stories from Yes and Yes – I’m 16 and have a career, and I’m a supermodel.

    Ways to better support your director, at Ms Career Girl.

    Some of 2011’s best articles for writers, via Make a Living Writing.

    The Startup Toolkit on sustainable failure and career entrepreneurship.

    MONEY

    Zooey Deschanel is an inspiration in more ways than one! She Bloggs on whether frugal celebrities are an oxymoron.

    In search of a common language: poverty and the great silence, by A Gai Shan Life.

    Geek in Heels on financial hardships and immigrant life.

    Cassie offers some cheap ways to inject a little something special into every day.

    LIFE

    So Over Debt’s take on SMART goals and being defined by your mistakes.

    A career/relationship mashup post by Her Every Cent Counts – it’s who you know.

    Eight handy personal statistic tracking tools, via Carrie Actually.

    Isaac Likes reflects on the inherent Kiwi culture.

    Girl with the Red Balloon talks about letting go of who you think you should be.

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Yep. That was my week last week. Two interns, at very different stages of experience. While #1’s work needs very little going over, #2’s stuff requires heavy editing. But I was an intern once – it’s a rite of passage several times over in this field – so patience it is. #2 also gets bonus points for being a keen bean this early on in her education.

    I also did what I’ve been meaning to do for about a year – do a few days of clean eating. I’m not sold on the idea of crazy detox diets, but I did like the idea of eating as close to natural for as long as I could hack it. I was guessing around four days. I ran out of fruit after three (and then had three days of an Indian wedding, and certainly wasn’t about to deprive myself).

    Here’s how it went. Breakfast: fruit salad of melon, berries and kiwifruit. Bananas for snacks. Silverbeet and onion stirfry with rice, and lentil fritters for lunch. Dinners were corn fritters with a melon, carrot, apple and spring onion salad; eggplant and tomato with a bit of fish; and roasted veggie salad.

    The idea was to cut out wheat, meat, dairy and sugar. I love my carbs and I have a sweet tooth like no other, but it was the grains I missed for the fullness.

    How did I feel? Pretty darn good, apart from the hunger – I just couldn’t stay full up to lunch, and felt briefly nauseous in the mornings – I’m used to cereal, oats or toast, or occasionally pancakes or bacon and eggs – so fruit for breakfast was really the only shock. (Eat more of it, you say? I actually don’t like fruit all that much, so I’m not sure I would have been able to put any more into me – even my favourite fruits, which I specifically picked out. See nausea reference.) On the other hand, I never felt bloated or heavy, either.

    Anyway, I’m glad to be back to delicious noodles, couscous, bread, ice cream, chorizo and baking. Also, corn chips.

    A quick public service message

    Hands down the best thing I’ve read was this Megan McArdle oped – What do low income communities need? (and her followup post here).

    If poor people did the stuff that middle class people do, it’s possible–maybe probable–that they wouldn’t be poor.  But this is much harder than it sounds.  As John Scalzi once memorably put it, “Being poor is having to live with choices you didn’t know you made when you were 14 years old.”  Which often means, he might have added, spending your whole life doing the sort of jobs that middle class people sometimes do when they’re 14.  It isn’t that people can’t get out of this: they do it quite frequently.  But in order to do so, you need the will and the skill–and the luck–to execute perfectly.  There is no margin for error in the lives of the working poor.

    Basically everything I tried to say here, but far more eloquently.

    Special mention also goes to this disturbing piece on the slim differences between lad mag readers and rapists. Yes, it’s typically hyped up in Jezebel fashion, but it’s still a story that stands alone.

    Oh, and RedHead Writing’s explanation of how to deal with the Facebook message purgatory of ‘other’.

    To the rest!

    WORK

    Want to change careers? Here’s how to get started, via Ms Career Girl.

    Susannah Forbes’ tips for getting on the telly.

    At Make A Living Writing, one writer’s story of landing his first paid blogging gig (in the three digits).

    And Sean Blanda’s excellent tips for startups pitching the media. Heck, it probably even helped me understand my job better.

    LIFE

    Dancing Through NC’s list of love myths she’s glad weren’t true.

    Questions to ask yourself before quitting, at Yes and Yes.

    Fabulous post from StacFace on the things she needs to own about herself.

    Only stupid people never change their minds, says Matt at Life Without Pants.

    Ah, technology. Andrea lists 35 things her son will never experience.

    Cordelia Calls It Quits on the 10 signs you’re on the right track.

    MONEY

    One simple way to improve your living conditions on the cheap. Via You Have More Than You Think.

    A couple of goodies at Get Rich Slowly: protecting yourself against sexually-transmitted debt and why financial literacy fails.

    FOOD

    Cate Linden’s rustic potato leek soup.

    Asparagus tart. Deeelish. (At Wandering Food Lover.)

    Smitten Kitchen’s caesar salad devilled eggs sound quite divine.

    10 quick and easy side dishes, courtesy of Dinner: A Love Story.

    Lemon meringue pie in 15 minutes? Jules of Stonesoup says yes.

    These Christmas chocolate cookies by Iowa Girl Eats look super easy.

    Mmm. Coffee blondies with cream cheese icing, via Hungry and Frozen.

    And salted caramel apple bars thanks up to Dishing Up Delight.

  • Link love (Powered by melon salad and long days)

    Suddenly, everyone and their cousin is going to police college. Guess that recruitment campaign did its job, huh? My two minted friends have both been lucky enough to be placed at Auckland Central, and more and more people keep popping up who are off to Wellington for their training. T actually applied earlier this year and was turned down without being given a reason, which was a disappointment, but also a relief – cop schedules are even more unsociable than journalists’.

    To the links! Special mention goes to this feature outlining what must be the most grisly murder case of the year – it fascinated me when it first broke and continues to do so. Tackling a story like that could not have been easy, so props to Jared (who is also a lovely guy).

    WORK

    At Professionally Social, tips for ballsing up as a noob at events and conferences.

    How to stop being afraid of failure, via the Levo League.

    To earn more, get in touch with your inner bitch, says Carol Tice.

    MONEY

    Budgets Are Sexy introduces the concept of linking income streams to goals.

    When should you share how much you make? Via Alexis Grant.

    Thousandaire asks if the small business path is the path to true wealth.

    LIFE

    I just can’t imagine what it would be like to have a partner diagnosed with cancer. This amazing guest post at APW gives us an idea.

    One for those of us with big dreams – what if you change your mind?

    Yes and Yes on staying optimistic in a flawed world.

    FOOD

    Yes and Yes shares her favourite soup recipes.

    Iowa Girl’s easy-peasy Japanese beef bowls.

    At Closet Cooking, red pepper and feta mashed potatoes...and snickerdoodles.

    How to eat your vegetables without trying, at Dumb Little Man.

  • Link love (Powered by ponderances and vitamin D)

    The more I think about committing to a 2013 wedding, the more I swing between feelings of excitement and anticipation, and doubt tinged with dread. The former is self-explanatory. The doubt is related to timing, the dread to the actual process of planning; there are a few details I’m psyched about, the rest sounds like too much hard work, no matter how simple we keep it.

    But I suppose I’ve always been a bit conflicted about marriage. As I guest blogged on Jessie’s Money, T’s first proposal didn’t go down so well (I’ll call it a practice run). And then a couple of years passed. I started wondering when I might expect him to do it right, as I thought of it – we talked about the future lots, about kids, about growing old, about how balancing our two families at a wedding might go. Even though I still was in no way ready to contemplate getting married.

    I still feel that being engaged is right and exactly where we’re meant to be. So it’s a timing thing. I’m thinking 2013 so our Europe trip can be a honeymoon. But I’m not totally sold and I’m not sure why that is.

    Is it because I was rather firmly tethered to the notion of getting hitched close to 30, with housebuying and childbearing following fairly closely after (once I’m wedded to a plan, being wrenched off that path is akin to passing kidney stones, or something hideously painful)?

    Is it because I still haven’t gotten over my aversion to the noun “wife”? Do I just not feel old enough to call ourselves a married couple yet?

    LIFE

    Laurene at Stratejoy muses on the strange nature of mother-daughter relationships.

    Five ways to improve your life in five minutes, with Bullish’s Jen.

    Matt at Life Without Pants talks plans vs missions.

    Sometimes what we want is full of contradictions, as Lesley at 23ToLife points out.

    Passive Panda and Writing to Reach You ask: are you ever jealous of your more successful peers?

    The joys and sorrows of being a misfit, via Rachel Hills.

    When one door closes, another opens. Lindy at Minting Nickels on ‘the one that got away’.

    Zen Habits on the warning signs that you’ve given up on your dreams.

    Makeunder My Life reminds us that we are only accountable to ourselves.

    At APW, we hear from a feminist homemaker.

    If you’re too busy, you’re not doing it right. At Study Hacks.

    Hithatsmybike on the boomerang children phenomenon.

    Little House imagines life pre-cellphone, pre-cable, pre-Facebook.

    WORK

    How to write a killer magazine pitch, by Rachel Hills.

    From self published author to big publishing deal – an inspirational read from Torre DeRoche.

    Redhead Writing walks us through the creation of a nonfiction book proposal.

    Should you take a sales job? Ms Career Girl answers a reader question.

    A tale of choosing entrepreneurship over a lifelong dream, at Sharp Skirts.

    Add Vodka on the pros of not having a steady job.

    MONEY

    Get Rich Slowly on America’s love-hate relationship with wealth (applies to New Zealand just as well, IMO).

    TeacHer reckons some personal finance advice is totally unrealistic.

    Forget about normal – strive for better, says Debt Ninja.

    So Over Debt offers some finance lessons from the Walking Dead.

    Want to avoid buyer’s remorse? Budgets Are Sexy has some good advice.

    FOOD

    Mmm, meatballs! Via a wandering food lover.

    Iowa Girl Eats shares her hungry hubby casserole.

    Spinach and lentil curry sounds delish (thanks Not Eating Out in New York),

    And finally, cranberry and white chocolate ripple ice cream, by Hungry and Frozen.

  • Link love (Powered by summer sandals and stupid tax)

    I’ve come to realise that I am quite rubbish at coming up with suggestions for ideas for presents. What makes a good gift for a significant other? Perfume? Chocolate? Jewellery?

    Personally, if I can’t be whisked away on a trip, I like to be wined and dined. Or rather, just dined, as I don’t like wine.

    How about you?

    Seth Godin explains how to get a job with a small company (I love that he put writing after selling – it gives me hope for, well, the rest of my career.)

    Amy asks: Have you ever followed your heart and had it go awry?

    A pep talk from Sarah at Yes and Yes – You’re not a fraud. Really. (Plus a rocking guest post at Kyla Roma on being the best scenario you.)

    Andrea details the financial difficulties of small town life.

    Financial Samurai learns the hard way not to tell others how much you earn.

    The rules of lifestyle inflation, at First Gen American.

    Professionally Social explains how to test drive a new career without changing jobs.

    How to win the office politics game, at Get Rich Slowly.

    Passive Panda’s 50 tools to boost productivity.

    Ashley at Writing to Reach You on journaling, handwriting and creativity.

    Shiftless and Lazy on what women want.

  • Link love (Powered by gelato and touchscreens)

    Google seems to have turned on quite a few blogs lately – which just goes to show the importance of fostering engagement and building a loyal community of readers. At work, we’re adopting a similar philosophy – less focus on SEO, which ultimately is out of your control, and more on delivering quality.

    When some time ago, I went back and ensured that as many images on this blog as possible were appropriately attributed and sourced from Creative Commons, I definitely lost some search traffic. And that’s fine with me. Search engine visitors love ya and leave ya.

    Anyway, thank goodness it’s Saturday! I really needed the breathing room – this week has been overwhelming. I know half the battle is mental, so I’ve been trying to adjust my attitude, which seemed to be a popular theme this week. Behold:

    Sometimes it’s about surrendering, Perfectly Cursed Life writes.

    Perfectionism is a disease, says StacFace.

    Nicole puts paid to inner monologues and limiting self-beliefs.

    Zen Habit on the silliness of busyness.

    Now, I present the rest of the links. Voila…

    WORK

    Grace Boyle on careers sans the manual.

    At Penelope Trunk, what startup life is really like.

    Two instances in which you should let your ambition rest, via Ms Career Girl.

    Turn your strengths into marketable skills, at I Want Her Job.

    Carol Tice’s tips on writing commercial sales copy (like anything, find something you believe in and the rest will come easily).

    Ask A Manager tackles 10 myths about nonprofit work.

    MONEY

    Funny About Money applies the minimalism principle to personal finance.

    Alexis Grant shares the juicy money details on leaving her day job.

    Punch Debt shares the easiest ways he’s ever made money.

    Beat the single-shopper penalty, with help from Get Rich Slowly.

    Dollars versus dreams, by Kat at Stratejoy.

    LIFE

    Hyperbole and a Half is back (!!!) with adventures in depression.

    Makeunder My Life reminds us to write our own success story.

    Everyday Minimalist lists some of the good things about minimalism (what isn’t, I ask?)

    Are we Generation F, asks Young and Thrifty?

    Here’s how to fix window drafts, by Digging Out and Up!

    And finally, Hannah Katy’s take on Adam and Eve.

    **I’m also included in this week’s Carnival of Personal Finance. Huzzah!**

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    This week, I lied about having a blog. I’ve done that before – once – to someone to whom I’m not close enough to confess to. But last weekend I got put on the spot by a good friend, and I instinctively said no. I’m definitely struggling with the semi-anonymity – I wouldn’t really care if he knew; I just don’t want to have to reveal it myself, if that makes any sense. And as blogging gains momentum over here (yeah…we’re a bit behind), I can’t help but want to put my name to eemusings. But the freedom to write without pressure – given that I write for public consumption all day long, Monday to Friday – is too good to give up…plus I still don’t want my blog to trump my Google results.

    To the links!

    Squirrelers tells us how to apply the Pareto principle to finances – eg, concentrating your effort where the returns are.

    Rather than jumping from job to job, stick around and make your own luck by being in the right place at the right time, says Robb of Boomer and Echo at Give Me Back My Five Bucks.

    As Little House writes, reality bites – and our ideals change over time.

    How to quit your job with class, at FruGal.

    Everyday Adventures cracked me up with this post on secret single behaviours. So true!

    Revanche dishes out some levelheaded advice on getting ahead in the workplace.

    Blonde and Balanced asks: Would you quit your job to stay home with the kids?

    Makeunder My Life explains how she’d use $100 to start a business.

    But don’t start a cafe with your spouse, as this Slate story warns.

    Ginger outlines the pros and cons of working from home.

    And finally, Penelope Trunk offers up finance tips for the self employed.

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    So, at some point last month, my three-month trial period passed.

    One of the cons on my mental list about taking the leap to a new job was the 90-day trial. Logically, I knew if I did the work well, I had nothing to worry about. But still.

    Anyway, whatever day it was came and went. I’m still there. Woot.

    I adjust to new situations quickly, and it already feels like I’ve been here forever. Occasionally I miss being able to slap on my headphones and listen to music for my whole weekend shift, but realistically, I was always being interrupted by the phone. I’ve learned that writing all day definitely makes me less inclined to do so after hours (ie, less blogging). I’ve accepted I don’t have much of a design eye and realised the power of InDesign (things I would have thought were done in Photoshop are in fact InDesigned), that my to-do list will no longer be essentially wiped clean at the end of every day, despaired at bad PR (and appreciated good pitches), and been annoyed countless times by those stickers on advance review copies of books (completely ruining any possibility of either a) using them for giveaway prizes and b) regifting them).

    Before I get started, thanks Boomer and Echo for hosting this week’s Carnival of Personal Finance. I’m in there, obvs.

    This week’s links:

    Does being content mean putting limitations on yourself? Fiscally Chic blogs about balancing epic and ‘enough’, at Makeunder My Life.

    Well Heeled lists some of the expenses we most like to judge other people on.

    Getting a second job to pay down debt is worth more than just the wage, reckon Nicole/Maggie.

    When is it time to quit? April at Get Rich Slowly offers some suggestions.

    Sandy at First Gen American ponders the meaning of feminism.

    Red shares her weight-loss strategies and how she plans to keep the kilos off.

    Stephany voices her constant niggling fears – the first step in facing up to them.

    Kommein’s Deb on fearlessness and why she prefers to be afraid.

    At Cordelia Calls it Quits, Deena reminds us that it’s never too late to start anything.

    And lastly – slightly random but worth it – a look at the truly fantastic Steve Jobs edition of Bloomberg Businessweek, via Subtraction.